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Joking

As the little children in my lives continue to grow, my humour has changed.  I started parenting full of jokes.  At first, it was self-deprecating zingers to cope with the overwhelming scope of my new job description.  As my children began to emerge and begin talking back, I tended to give into humour that was a little on the ridiculous side.  I would hear their lament, sometimes from their position sprawled on the floor of the grocery store and rally them with quips to get them up and out the door. Their ardent, earnest queries like, will you pick me up? were often met with jokey gambits like ...oh no sorry, I packed your sleeping bag so you can sleep here all night.  After a while, this approach ( as hilarious as it was to me) came to irritate my kids and they would vehemently command me not to joke.  As time slipped by, first my daughter, then my son started to become sarcastic and quick witted and my wit began to dim. As their humour turned more ca...

Driving in cars with girl(s)

My daughter and I kept our new to us tradition of starting the new year driving somewhere and taking pictures, talking and listening to music. The car unleashes an intimacy that is difficult to achieve elsewhere. There are no brothers or fathers or noise except the noise we make. There is no need to hold back but also no need to talk. I treasure these drives. Who knows how long they will last? Not long, if breastfeeding/sleeping on my chest/mispronouncing words is anything to go by.