Of course, in our climate, it is really more important to be covered as the temperature drops, than matching, and so I often go with that. However, there is always a bit of fear of judgement. I see those little kids all matching all the time and I wonder, how do their parents do it? What is the formula, the trick, the method?
Not matching is associated with laziness, obliviousness and carelessness, and I know that I can be called three at various time, it just doesn't tell the whole story. Just as appearances seldom do.